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Retiring earlier, while seems enviable (and should be!), is kinda scary TBH All the computations and analysis done to ensure financials are in order were key. Even then, there is always a risk of something going south. That's why the plans have backup, which themselves have backup. Still, once you made the leap, there's almost no turning back. You can turn back to find a job, but its going to be hard (once you tasted the honey of freedom, which I did, its very hard to accept its loss) Now that I made the leap, I am on my own. There is no safety net of a job, and large corporation that pays the bills and medical expenses.  I have to be on my toes on financials, not everyday, but still, be very conscious on expenses and projected expenses and if there are looming changes coming.  You will want to not step onto something that gives way to your weight, if you get what I mean.  Still, confidence takes time to grow. Bit by bit. It takes discipline, stick to your plans, be brave...

 No, not about the $$ I have, though I think I have a decent amount relative to others I am rich, because I am free. I have time to do things I want (not any thing, but thinks I can do) I am rich, because I can be there for my kids anytime... Meet the teacher? No problem.  Need to get something urgently from the store to do a school project? I'll do get it! Need to accompany my spouse to all her medical appointments, even those which simply involve waiting for a long time ? I'll be present. I don't have answer to other things that can override my choices on how I want to spend my time.  I am therefore, RICH. 

 The freedom I am enjoying now is Awesome I must remind myself how precious it is, lest I start to normalize it and take it for granted. When we are chained to our job to make ends meet (and then some), we yearn for the day we can break free of the chains. The deadlines, the meetings, the networking, the schemings, the anxieties, the yearly performance targets, the stress etc. at those moments, we dreamt of freedom.  But when we actually get freedom, we may ironically say we are bored. Now that’s very ungrateful.  I must never be ungrateful to my freedom. This is hard earned by myself with some dosage of luck of meeting the right people who helped me.  Really appreciate it. Will take good care of myself, my health and my mind and my family and my resources to fully appreciate this freedom !

 Now, that's a statement that can be made by anyone. I say that when I was still working I say that now that I am retired But it has a very different meaning Before retirement, saying you have nothing to do is probably born out of boredom that comes from too many things to want to try with too little time, where time is so short that its not enough to even do one thing. With retirement and all the flexible time on hand, say you have nothing to do can still come from boredom, but it's a a different kind.  With all the time on hand, you are limited by mostly the resources (mostly money lah) you have, as well as, if you are old fart like me, also limited by what your stiff joints and dwindling muscle mass allows. So that naturally cuts down, from a theoretical unlimited list of things to a more reasonable list of things you can do. And with all the time on hand, you can do all of it! But you can still say you have nothing to do when someone asks what you are doing now. It's a ...

 $692  Probably my last time paying income tax lol That’s about $50 per month What a relief 

when you have kids, you gave dilemma  Why With the ease of digital media, parents have easy access to all the videos and photos of their kids since the day they were born.  This is double edged Yes, the ease of retrieval of old photos and videos is nice, especially when you want to reminisce the cute times. But have we thought about the impact of our behaviour on our still growing kids? How do they actually feel when their parents keep showing them their cute photos as babies and toddlers? Will they feel that their present form is no longer as appealing to their parents? Will they think their parents are just happy when they were babies? As parents, the time and energy we expend on looking at old media meant we lose time and energy to appreciate the "present" form of our kids. its ironic, but we end up taking lesser and lesser videos and photos.  Yes, babies and toddlers are cute, but so are teens and young adults kids! Let's not abuse the tech we have at the detriment of...

Now, if someone who has no worries whatsoever on their living expenses and material life, comes and tell me they are unhappy with life and has so many issues and feel so down...I cannot understand it on surface.  But I can also understand it. Why? We all need our basic needs, think safe home, food, clothes, internet, entertainment.  If you don't have basic needs, you will be miserable most of the time, but you can try keep your mood up sometimes with positive thinking. But you will generally still be unhappy. Once you have your basic needs (so some) covered, you have a baseline of happiness that you can hit easily. But the human mind is never satisfied. You will now have time and energy to find faults with things. The food isn't so good, your home isn't that nice, your spouse isn't good enough etc etc. So, to the unhappy and miserable rich man....how about you give away all your riches and go back to working for others? And then find happiness from that position?  Or yo...