Friday, August 30, 2024

Energy levels and sleepiness

 Uncle is entering semi-retirement now. Stopped working to see if this will work out

Suddenly, noticed that I will fall asleep every day at around 3-4pm. 

Initially I attributed it to my tiredness after years of stressful worklife

But after 2 weeks of taking naps, it didn't go away. 

Then it hit me....

Its my body and mind trying to find a new rhythm of life.

You see, when you have a full time job, the rigours and schedule of that job takes over your life. It becomes the center upon which you revolve the rest of your life around, including personal, family, schedules. 

Now, take that job away, and you lost your "center" schedule. And your mind and body goes hunting for directions, and becomes disoriented. 

I need to find a new center to replace the old one. But this time it will be a better version.Why?

Because, when you are employed, you have no control over this center of life, since it almost dictates when your "own" time starts and ends, and sometimes, it takes over all your time.

Now I can create my own center on my own terms

But I must be careful...

If I am lazy and creates a center that is too relaxed, I will decline, both in physical and mental capacity. Use it or lose it, right?

So I must instil a schedule, a discipline, and routine, that is not too relaxed, that is able to give me a little push to make me work hard, but yet at the back of my mind, take comfort in that this is totally in my control, and not someone else (ex Boss)

I hope this is the reason, but I have to try it. I think it should be it, because I am generally healthy and didn't have any issues based on recent health screening and blood tests.

Also, I don't think full retirement is in the cards, I should upskill and get a job for another 5 years or so to take money off the table! 

Friday, August 23, 2024

Gifted kid or not?

 https://www.channelnewsasia.com/commentary/gifted-education-programme-revamp-primary-school-high-ability-student-moe-4558771

Quote

"The GEP revamp signals a shift in policy. Rather than taxpayer-funded resources flowing to a small minority of students, those resources could be spread out to benefit more students across all primary schools.

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Will be interesting to see if this change actually changes the financial demographics of the GEP cohort. My take is it won't. Parents with resources will still be win out. In fact, more parents with resources are now able to aim for GEP by funding tuition, since there are more seats available and there's no need to move to another school. So this could potentially have the side effect of expanding the GEP crazies. Good for the tuition centres. But bad for the kids of such parents. More tuition, more stress, more homework, and then more stress after being selected, especially the "gifted" comes from tuition training, and not natural high ability. If can means can, if cannot means cannot. Don't force it. Be happy. Don't use the system rules as an excuse for your decisions. 

Monday, August 19, 2024

Young woman and friends lost passports in JB

 https://www.asiaone.com/singapore/didnt-even-bring-bag-singaporean-woman-day-trip-stranded-jb-4-days-after-losing-passport

Quote:

The 22-year-old influencer had driven up to Johor Bahru on Aug 10 at about 1am for a quick massage and hotpot meal, she said in her first video.

Sim explained that she and her friends had stored their passports in the glove compartment of the car before heading to the hotpot restaurant.


Uncle thinks this group simply took their own personal safety for granted. Drove into JB at 1am is already a red flag. And go there without a bag to store your passports? Put passports in glovebox?

They think they are going to Geylang for supper is it? LOL

So now want to post ordeal in TikTok for what? For whole F world to laugh I think. 

Thursday, August 15, 2024

Retiring or not?

Hard question at this age. Technically it is possible, but socially it seems not acceptable. Wide-eyed stares when I talked about it to peers, probably thinking that Uncle had overdosed with kopi-o cannot think properly lol

The rat race mentality, competitiveness, materialism in Singapore is part of our DNA so much that no one in general would question if it all make sense, nor dare to take a different path.

Either you are ridiculed for being foolish, or frowned upon for being able to do it when they can't.

But Uncle is determined to forge my own path. Uncle always believe that if you do the same thing as everyone else, you won't be successful. Success is about being relatively better. Doing the same thing at same level as others means you are no different from the masses, so why would you expect to get better opportunities? 

Once you stay in a condo or landed house, why can't you re-adjust and move to HDB? What's the shame in that? 

Shame is if you foolishly try to impress others while suffering in silence to make ends meet due to the unrealistic lifestyle you want to hold on to even when you could step back a little to a still very good life while not having to continue in rat race and burning up your health. 

I'll rather have time, health, love in my humble and nicely furnished HDB then to have no time, poor health, and quarrels in my fancy condo


Tuesday, August 13, 2024

National Day - flag covers for car side mirrors

 https://www.asiaone.com/singapore/singaporean-slams-motorists-over-disrespectful-flag-display-side-mirrors?utm_source=a1home&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=A1+trending&utm_content=c11

WTF did I just read? 

Some clown actually think it's an issue here. And thinks car drivers want to use the flag designed covers to protect their car mirrors cap. 

Wake up lah you mountain turtle. As a car driver, I believe most of us F care about the side mirrors. The national flag designed covers are sold all over petrol stations during the National Day period, and this has been going on for years. I think it's a fun thing to do to display.

Don't be a sore loser. Go work harder and buy that car you envy your neighbour has. F loser.

Friday, August 9, 2024

Happy Birthday Singapore

 Uncle had opportunities to uproot and move for work, but Uncle never want to. I don't see the appeal of it. Singapore always feel more like home to me anyway. 

Happy birthday SG. 

Wednesday, August 7, 2024

Downgrade regrets?

 Read this today 

https://stackedhomes.com/editorial/from-large-condo-to-small-flat-homeowners-share-their-downgrading-regrets-in-singapore/#gs.da420j

For the 2nd case, it brings up good points/lessons. Don't over-react and make drastic changes to "imaginary" worst case scenarios that play out in your mind. If you are not mentally/financially prepared and something bad happens, don't over-react and make wrong decisions, especially on issues that could be very hard/impossible to reverse. 

Even if mentally prepared, when the risk materialises, you will still need a cooling period to absorb the event, and make a sound decision. Don't rush into things.

When Uncle decide to take a career break, Uncle also play out worst case scenarios in my mind, and see how I could handle it. But Uncle also didn't act on it immediately, and took on a more moderate approach, but adjusting exceptions on probability on what could happen realistically. 

Here were some drastic decisions I could had made as I transitioned to a career break

1. Liquidate stocks and bonds and use it to clear off mortgage of my condo

2. Sell condo and move to a cheaper one (or move to HDB)

The above are purely from financial long term perspective, but it did not consider the impact on other things like my kids and wife. Distance to school, environment, adjustment time, time and effort to plan and move again...

I have since put these extreme/drastic plans in back pocket. I think it's always good to plan for worse cases, write down your action plan so you can refer to them when bad things happen and when you are in panic mode.

But I am not executing these plans now, because the situations that call for them are not happening, and would likely have a very low chance of happening. (yes, shit happens, but when shit happens, just bring out your backup toilet paper lor)

So Uncle instead decide to work out the sums, budget the amount required for my break, and realised its workable, and we can continue staying in current place. 

Plans are meant to be flexible anyway, and Uncle will monitor and adjust as my break goes on, perhaps take a check point every 3 months to see if all things are still going in safe direction. I think this is a more mature approach to deal with complex issues, vs a binary/extreme way of doing things (or rash way)

Tuesday, August 6, 2024

Awesome, REIT shopping again today

Bought some Capitaland China again. Wonder how long Uncle can afford to keep doing DCA on this bugger. Mr China, please please please, get well soon. I always believe you are strong in long term.

Sunday, August 4, 2024

Living in HDB vs Condo in Singapore

Uncle not born with silver spoon, no rich parents to dispense money to me for large life expenses (marriage, housing), but Uncle not complaining as Uncle has responsible/sensible parent (yes, parent) to give Uncle a chance to complete undergraduate studies to get a basic degree to get a good starting point in career (in general lah). 

So when Uncle started working at age of around 25, I have $1000 in my name. And it starts from there. Uncle don't live like a miser. I go on dates, go clubbing, buy gadgets, even buy car. But somehow Uncle still managed to diligently save 10-20% each month consistently, and this percentage goes up when my pay increases over the years (i.e. expenses/lifestyle costs rate of increase is lower than pay increase rate)

Still, Uncle cannot afford to buy condo when I got married. So have to go for BTO HDB, which we were lucky as there was a surplus of HDBs in the mid-2000s, so HDB has balance of new flats for Uncle to pick and choose and move in immediately once paperwork is done. Plus HDB very generous (or desperate), give Uncle $50k discount off the list price. Huat ah!

Anyway, this is not to bash HDB, they do what they have to do and Uncle appreciates the hard work my fellow countrymen do to keep Singaporeans housed. 

Uncle has lived in HDB all my life since I was born, so buying my own HDB after getting married doesn't require adjustment in lifestyle. The real adjustment is to learn how to manage my own household, maintain the house and pay the bills lol.

Almost 10 years later, Uncle decided to change to Condo. Why? it is to take a bet, to take risk, to see whether can catapult Uncle into higher financial level (vs just saving from income). Uncle made a lot of calculations until Uncle's Casio calculator also died. Uncle very kiasi one. Why? Because Uncle only have Uncle (and Uncle wife) to fall back on if something goes wrong. No rich papa/mama as backstop. So Uncle very careful. 

Anyway, Condo was to accelerate the growth of my capital as Uncle believe it goes up faster vs HDB. As for difference in Condo living vs HDB, these are Uncle's experiences:

1. Neighbours...Condo you see more foreigners as Condo has more rental units (at least during my time) compared to HDB. So you get to mix with a more international community. Good or bad, I don't know. But whether they are more friendly or not, I think it doesn't really depend on nationality. It is really personal. But one thing for sure...if you kena rowdy condo resident who is a tenant, good luck to you. For HDB, tenants tend to be more obedient because HDB ultimately is govt controlled, which means you can easily get Town Council/Police over. But condo, you are mostly on your own. Even the security in condo can be very timid. 

2. Facilities...first time condo owner, sure try to use all the facilities...bbq, function room, pools, gym. For Uncle, that lasts for about 6 months lol. After that, I hardly use anything except gym. So wonder why I pay $300 per month for maintenance of condo, hahahah

3. Freebies from Govt...nothing for condo owners. Too bad. but Uncle understand the sensitivity there. It will be politically unwise to give rebates to private condo owners. 

4. Status...nobody gives hoot whether you stay condo or HDB, unless your condo is in Orchard road. But Uncle seldom tell people where I stay unless asked. Some people can have very red eyes and change their attitude towards you one haha. Stay low profile.

5. HDB is definitely cheaper to stay, in terms of running costs. Property tax for condo is much higher, and condo has maintenance cost to pay each month. HDB just pay some town council fees, and if you don't drive, you don't have to pay for carpark cost.

6.Cleanliness , I think about same. HDB can be very clean if new estate. Condo can be very dirty if old condo. 

Would Uncle move back to HDB? I think I will if it makes financial sense, esp when Uncle become old old Uncle. Old old uncle no need gym, pool, and won't drive anyway. So condo is really just too expensive. But if Uncle does well financially, stay in condo also ok lah.

 

REITS listed in Singapore

Wow, suddenly every blog/YouTube about finances are talking about REITS, only after the prices started to trend up. Why don't they talk about REITS when prices were down and down and down, and when there is a great REIT sale going on?

I am going to slow down REIT buying while all these fellas influence (subconsciously) the public to go into REITS, which will push the prices up too fast and away from reality. Soon, the impatient ones will take out their money again and the froth will be gone and I'll buy again in larger amounts at a discount.



Thursday, August 1, 2024

SIA C6L dropped 10% today

 Well, it's XD plus some not so good news from SIA?

SIA posts earnings of $452 million for 1QFY2025, 38.4% lower y-o-y


Anyway, its a DCA chance, so uncle bought some of it at $6.31

still profitable business, so jumpy the market

Legacy car brands ADs

 News reported that the forever Toyota AD here in SG has to retrench. Obviously this is an outcome of SG love of EVs over the last few years...