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Enjoying your nice condo apartment

 As I lay comfortably on bed before dinner time, listening to K-pop music while admiring my tastefully appointed bedroom and looking out the windows through the gaps of my real wood blinds, it hit me.

What?

Well, if I was still slogging my ass off in a day job in office, this scenario will be extremely rare. I leave for work just when sun is about to rise and reach home after dark. And weekends? There will be errands, shopping etc, and we are hardly at home. Groceries run, exercise, shopping etc all squeezed into the weekends. 

So it’s ironic that many of us spent so much money and efforts to buy a nice condo apartment, spent money and time to renovate it extensively and also buy so many things to fill it up nicely, and yet we don’t really spend time to savor all of it.

By the time we retire when we are old, the condo is also old and worn down. We never enjoy it when it was new and shiny. It’s so dumb.

I am glad I can enjoy mine now while it’s still new. 

What a blessed time 

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