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Lubricant of life… money

 Yes that’s what money does

It’s a lubricant of life, like engine oil is a lubricant for a car engine. Without sufficient lubricant, the engine seizes and stops working. Your life becomes very difficult to move along, things become difficult, food becomes scarce etc

But, too much lubricant is also not good. The engine will be damaged too!

Too much money? How dare you say that? There’s never too much money!

Well, I think too much money is harmful to life too. You can only eat so much or drink so much a day. You only lie on one bed to sleep. You can only drive one car at any time.

Excessive money will lubricant your life so smooth that your life become very boring very quickly and you will start having all kinds of issues (think addiction to substances and alcohol etc)

Life becomes too easy. Everything comes easily. Want that car? You got it. Want that house? Here take the keys. Want to fly to Japan for ramen, let’s go! There are no efforts anymore!


We thrive on life satisfactions, that comes from achieving something, big or small. 

When you have a job, each small tasks completed makes you feel better right? Imagine all your tasks are so simple, you will bore to death even if the job pays well. If you pay me $10k a month to sit at desk to press one button for 8hrs per day, I will quit shortly. 

Money can over lubricate your life. 

Zero or insufficient money can make your life hard, or maybe even impossible if your basic needs cannot be met

The key here is to know when you have enough money lubricating the life you want to live. 


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