Nightmare of work during vacation

So I had a nightmare while sleeping during vacation

I dreamt of forgetting to complete a task assigned to me before I went on vacation.

It was nerve wracking

Not sure why it would be. Maybe I am ultimately a very responsible employee lol

But TBH I am not proud to be “responsible” this way at this stage.

Maybe it’s ok to when I was younger and building my career and assets. But I at at the age and stage where this isn’t a proud thing. I should be responsible for ensuring I live happily for my remaining time on earth. And that time is not short but it ain’t guaranteed too

So, maybe this is the sign of things to come in Jan hehe

Hopefully not more nightmares

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