Make your own decisions

 Don’t anyhow give up choices and decisions without thinking ahead of what you are going to lose

Don’t just say “I’ll go with whatever you decide” especially on matters that are very hard to reverse. You will lose control that will be impossible to get back.

You may think it doesn’t impact you, and you could be right. But think harder. It could impact those you care.

So, make your intentions and wishes clear. Don’t leave it to others. Don’t succumb to pressure to make a hasty decision. 

Worse is, don’t give up the choice to make a choice.